Ashley M McMains
April 2026
Ashley M
McMains
,
BSN, RN
COPE Clinic
University of New Mexico Hospitals
Albuqueruque
,
NM
United States
By speaking directly to my grandmother in her native language and truly honoring her culture, she created a space where my grandmother felt valued, respected, and understood, not just as a patient, but as a person.
There are nurses who do their job well, and then there are nurses who completely change how a patient and their family experience care. This nurse is one of those rare individuals, and she is the reason I am submitting this nomination. My grandmother receives psychiatric care at the COPE clinic, and like many patients navigating mental health treatment, those visits can feel overwhelming.
On top of that, she is predominantly Spanish-speaking, which has made past experiences confusing and, at times, isolating. There has always been this underlying fear of not fully understanding her diagnosis, of not knowing what medications are doing, and of feeling like she has to just go along with whatever is said. This nurse changed that completely.
From the moment she entered the room, she centered everything around my grandmother not the task, not the schedule, but the person. She sat down with her, made eye contact, and spoke to her in Spanish with warmth, patience, and genuine respect. It wasn’t just about translating words—it was about honoring who my grandmother is. She communicated in a way that reflected my grandmother’s culture, her comfort, and her dignity. In that moment, my grandmother went from anxious and withdrawn to engaged and present. She felt safe enough to ask questions, to express concerns, and to truly be part of her own care.
What sets this nurse apart is the depth of her intention. She didn’t stop at simply administering the long-acting injectable (LAI). She took the time to thoroughly review the provider’s notes and break them down in a way my grandmother could understand. She explained her psychiatric diagnosis with compassion and clarity. She walked through the purpose of the medication, what it would do, and the potential side effects, pausing, checking in, and making sure nothing was left unclear. She made sure my grandmother didn’t just receive care, she understood it.
As a family, that meant everything to us. As Spanish-speaking patients, we don’t always feel seen in healthcare, especially in psychiatric settings where communication and trust are essential. But this nurse changed that. By speaking directly to my grandmother in her native language and truly honoring her culture, she created a space where my grandmother felt valued, respected, and understood, not just as a patient, but as a person. And what truly makes her extraordinary is that her care did not end when the visit was over.
Later that week, she followed up with a phone call to check on my grandmother. She took the time to ask how she was feeling after the injection, if she had experienced any side effects, and if she had any questions. This was not something she had to do, but she chose to. That level of follow-through speaks volumes about the kind of nurse she is. My mom was genuinely excited to receive that call. She even said, for the first time, that she felt comfortable and at peace with my grandmother’s diagnosis and medication plan. That has never happened before.
That sense of reassurance and trust came directly from the care this nurse provided. This nurse didn’t just meet expectations, she exceeded them in every possible way. She built trust where there was fear. She created understanding where there was confusion. She brought comfort where there was anxiety. She is not only clinically skilled, but she is deeply compassionate, culturally aware, and truly patient-centered in everything she does.
On top of that, she is predominantly Spanish-speaking, which has made past experiences confusing and, at times, isolating. There has always been this underlying fear of not fully understanding her diagnosis, of not knowing what medications are doing, and of feeling like she has to just go along with whatever is said. This nurse changed that completely.
From the moment she entered the room, she centered everything around my grandmother not the task, not the schedule, but the person. She sat down with her, made eye contact, and spoke to her in Spanish with warmth, patience, and genuine respect. It wasn’t just about translating words—it was about honoring who my grandmother is. She communicated in a way that reflected my grandmother’s culture, her comfort, and her dignity. In that moment, my grandmother went from anxious and withdrawn to engaged and present. She felt safe enough to ask questions, to express concerns, and to truly be part of her own care.
What sets this nurse apart is the depth of her intention. She didn’t stop at simply administering the long-acting injectable (LAI). She took the time to thoroughly review the provider’s notes and break them down in a way my grandmother could understand. She explained her psychiatric diagnosis with compassion and clarity. She walked through the purpose of the medication, what it would do, and the potential side effects, pausing, checking in, and making sure nothing was left unclear. She made sure my grandmother didn’t just receive care, she understood it.
As a family, that meant everything to us. As Spanish-speaking patients, we don’t always feel seen in healthcare, especially in psychiatric settings where communication and trust are essential. But this nurse changed that. By speaking directly to my grandmother in her native language and truly honoring her culture, she created a space where my grandmother felt valued, respected, and understood, not just as a patient, but as a person. And what truly makes her extraordinary is that her care did not end when the visit was over.
Later that week, she followed up with a phone call to check on my grandmother. She took the time to ask how she was feeling after the injection, if she had experienced any side effects, and if she had any questions. This was not something she had to do, but she chose to. That level of follow-through speaks volumes about the kind of nurse she is. My mom was genuinely excited to receive that call. She even said, for the first time, that she felt comfortable and at peace with my grandmother’s diagnosis and medication plan. That has never happened before.
That sense of reassurance and trust came directly from the care this nurse provided. This nurse didn’t just meet expectations, she exceeded them in every possible way. She built trust where there was fear. She created understanding where there was confusion. She brought comfort where there was anxiety. She is not only clinically skilled, but she is deeply compassionate, culturally aware, and truly patient-centered in everything she does.