Janet Barnes
May 2021
Janet
Barnes
,
RN
Meyer 4, Inpatient behavioral health unit
The Johns Hopkins Hospital
Baltimore
,
MD
United States

 

 

 

I felt most comfortable reaching out to Janet whenever I wanted to feel heard and often left with not only sound advice but a smile on my face as well.
This letter is inspired by one of the most diligent, empathetic, humorous, confident, and intelligent nurses I have ever encountered. I met Janet on my first day being admitted to Meyer 4. Two weeks prior I had a nearly fatal suicide attempt, which after surviving, left me with a lasting feeling of anger. Not because I survived, but rather what seemed like fake sympathies and a sudden over eagerness from everyone trying to help me. I can admit, due to my illness, I had an irrational and distressing perspective on life and would lash out at anyone’s attempt to contradict me or change my mind. I was in denial of my illness and remained that way for a large portion of my stay.

Feeling misunderstood and alone, I felt most comfortable reaching out to Janet whenever I wanted to feel heard and often left with not only sound advice but a smile on my face as well. As I struggled with feelings and ambivalence towards my illness, Janet was always an open ear for me to express my frustrations and conflicting feelings. She has a special ability to calm me down with reason. Her thoughtfulness and the sincerity of her words and actions are absolutely admirable and I believe all nurses should strive to embody these qualities. As I write this on the last day of a two month stay, I cannot leave without giving my gratitude towards the best nurse ever! Janet! I thank you so much!