Vilma Ponder
October 2015
Vilma
Ponder
,
LPN
Pediatrics
Rapides Regional Medical Center
Alexandria
,
LA
United States

 

 

 

As pediatric nurses, we often form a special bond with our little ones but Vilma recently went above a beyond for a beautiful young girl in need of a safe haven. JJ was placed in the custody of the state. As Vilma was not certified as a foster parent she knew she could not likely provide her with a home. However, she still contacted JJ's case manager and openly offered any assistance she could provide. A few weeks later the state found themselves in the circumstances that JJ could no longer live with her foster family. They made one phone call to Vilma and, though scared as they had never been parents before, she and her husband stepped up, no questions asked. With literally just a few hours to prepare, they were instant foster parents to a one and a half year-old, scared, confused, very busy and bright little girl.

JJ not only required all of the "normal" toddler adaptations, but she continued to have medical needs as well. Vilma never hesitated. She gave unselfishly of her time and home until JJ returned to her mother's custody. Her world was completely different with a child to provide and care for; a toddler attached to her hip, not even being able to shower without interruption. She had doctor's appointments and court dates to attend. With no certification as foster parents, the financial burden was completely theirs. This was a non-issue. She never wavered in her commitment to do what was right for her foster baby. Not only did she unselfishly care for JJ, but she maintained an open heart and open mind beyond that which any average person could. She and her husband created a nurturing relationship with JJ's biological family and they have formed a bond that allows JJ to have more love and support than she had ever known.

This is only one example of many selfless acts of kindness that Vilma shows us every day. Her commitment to her patients and colleagues serves to remind to all us of what the heart of nurse should be.